What if your quirks, your questions, and even your chaos had a through line?

This Probably Why is a genre-blurring blend of memoir and mirror. Part personal essay collection, part self-discovery journal, Destiny peels back the layers of memory, culture, and identity to explore one central theme: Why am I the way I am?

With warmth, wit, and raw reflection, Destiny recounts stories of growing up with four generations of women, absorbing their magic, their mantras, and their messiness. From writing a Fruit Loops love letter to God, to dialing a vacation hotline mistaken for a sex line, to realizing your name might just be your North Star. This Probably Why is full of hilariously honest moments that hit deep.

But this isn’t just her story. It’s an invitation.

Every chapter is paired with a guided writing prompt or madlib-style exercise to help you unpack your own origin stories, family spells, creative blocks, spiritual detours, and secret superpowers. Whether you're a late bloomer, a creative wanderer, an ambitious introvert, or someone simply seeking to reconnect with your own “why,” this book is your soft nudge inward.

Perfect for:
✔️ Overthinkers
✔️Deep Feelers
✔️ Late bloomers
✔️ Journal Writers
✔️ Creatives trying to find their voice (& keep it)

Come for the stories. Stay for yourself.